JOHANNESBURG - As the world marks International Day of the Boy Child on 16 May, South Africans recognise the challenges they face.
While the world push for gender equality focusing on empowering girls and women, the challenges faced by boys are often overlooked.
In South Africa, many boys grow up in tough social circumstances.
According to The Character Company, a non-profit organisation, poverty, crime, gangsterism, and substance abuse affect millions of households making it harder for families to raise boys into responsible men.
Most striking, the organisation highlights that 70% of South African children are growing up in single-parent homes, and four out of five boys lack a consistent, positive male role model.
“Fatherless boys, or those without meaningful relationships with caring adult men, are more vulnerable to idolising ‘alpha male’ influencers or local gangster bosses with flashy cars,” the NGO says.
To mark the day, eNCA posed a question on social media: With the recent horrific incidents involving children, what message do you have for the boy child?”
Responding to this on X, user Africa Mthiyane said young boys deserve mentors, role models and a better understanding of themselves.
"Stand for the truth, speak out and always stick to the values of living in harmony with others, self care and taking good care of one’s mental health status is of utmost importance. God first," he says.
Another user also on X, Botho Mpholo says boys should "stay positive and out of trouble. Strive to be the best you can be."
On Facebook David Sindana reflected on the importance of religion saying it is best suited to mould them into better men.
Jennifer Clapham Rijkenberg shifted from religion to books emphasising the importance of education.
She also stressed the need for parents to be aware of their parenting skills.
Meanwhile Elizabeth C Nortje said boys should, “listen to your mother and father, they know best, have a good heart, stay humble, respect your elders and earth. Be kind, offer help where needed.
"Be kind to animals. Listen before you speak. Speak kind words. Love your mother, when you do that, you will be a good young man one day.”